10 Quick Relationship Rules for Cubs

Dating A Cougar

These are just some basic rules to know for cougar dating success:

    Know what you want from your Cougar: Are you just wanting a one-night stand with a mature woman or do you think you are interested in a long-term relationship.  You need to decide this to make sure you can focus your energies on the right type of cougar.

    Get Educated and Stay Semi-Current: If you want to date a high profile and successful cougar you need to be aware that they are generally very intelligent and sophisticated so study up or you won’t be able to keep your cougar interested.

    Keep your energy level up: More mature women are looking for lots of action in the sack from their younger mates otherwise they would just stick with older men.

    Be ready when they are: Her schedule is the important one so be ready to drop what you are doing and go on a date whenever she wants, remember you are the boy toy.

    Sincere compliments are always appropriate: Keep your cougar feeling good about themselves and young again by showing her off to friends and offering ample compliments.

    It’s not going to be all about you: Sure, you are going to be given some nice clothes and fine gifts at times but you are really there for her not the other way around (as much at least).

    Understand the social stigma: Like younger women that date older men you will sometimes be viewed as a gold digger as if you are taking advantage of your cougar (see above skin thickness questions).

    Use a condom: Just because your cougar my have passed menopause, you still need to be safe to avoid getting STDs.

    Beware of lawsuits and legal threats: If you suddenly find yourself in your cougar’s will then expect her children to take action.

    Be realistic: You may be looking for a long-term relationship with a mature woman but many cougars do not want that in return so don’t be surprised if your cougar moves on and certainly don’t give her a reason to do so.